1.01. make sure you are on the same page; the keyword for this stage is 'common interest', the person you like can't like you right away, they must have decided they aren't going to be in any relationship right now, you can bet they won't change their mind for you. before you get your heart set on pursuing something with this friend, make sure they are open to a relationship and know what they are looking for in a mate. did they just go through a bad breakup?, she can't get over her ex?, are you being blocked by her parents over protection or siblings restrictions, does she play by some rules?, timing is everything, and sometimes things just aren't meant to be. it's also important to evaluate your own feelings. are you willing to risk your friendship to take things further? if you just want to see what it would be like to bang this person, quit while you're ahead
