How To Know She's Into You

When it comes to asking a girl out, especially if you genuinely like her, your mind starts to go on overdrive. You start thinking stuffs like, Does she like me? What if she doesn’t and asking will spoil our friendship? What if she likes me and I’m just over thinking this? How can I be sure?

The thing is, you can’t be 100% certain that she likes you unless you get the courage to ask her out and get the answer. This post though is to help you get enough courage to ask the “big question” (not as big as “will you marry me” so chill)

#1. She makes an effort to communicate with you: A girl that is into you will want to talk to you more. She’ll call you to know how you’re doing and even text you at leisure. A girl that isn’t into you would not bother calling or texting you when you don’t call or text. This is pretty Duhh’ish.

#2. She laughs at your jokes:  Girls that are into you laugh at your jokes even when they are stupid and not funny. You’ll realize that some girls that once used to laugh at your jokes now see the same thing as you being silly and not funny – It’s because back when you thought you were funny, they had a crush on you so you made them smile, not really your jokes. But now the feeling is gone so if the joke aint funny, they aint laughing.

#3. She will try to impress/please you: This is why she laughed at your jokes. This is also why she acts different around you (things that don’t thrill other girls, thrills this one).

 I was talking with one of my ex some years back and the conversation got really boring so I asked her “how come we could talk for hours before and never get bored?” and she said, “back then I wanted to impress you so I started liking stuffs you  liked so we would have something to talk about and I’ll seem fun to you, but now I’m not interested in pleasing you so if you don’t like anything I do, that’s your problem” Harsh much but it’s the truth.

Note: Every girl is unique. Noticing all these signs in a girl may not mean that she’s into you. It’s up to you to get to know her better.

If you never ask a girl out because you can’t be certain she’s into you, you’ll die lonely. Sounds gloomy right? So just do it, summon the courage and ask her – Realize that sometimes there will be rejections and other times acceptance