Top Ten best Anime series

Happy Sunday to you all.

Just got back from church and I was ready to get into my Sunday ritual - watching animes (because Sunday is my only really free day). But I'm up on the latest happenings on all my favorites... to cut the short story long, I'm bored.
So I decided to just write a list; The Top Ten animes out there.

I'm not going to explain what an anime is. If you don't know what it is, don't bother yourself. Read another post of mine :)

10. Naruto

summary:
 Naruto is one of the greatest anime out there, the 10 place is not fitting for it but.. they are lost. The story has become 'anyhow'. Sasuke has a rinnengan? Rikodu Sennins mother is back to life? Absolute rubbish, but a must watch (I'm contradicting myself init)

9. Bleach

Summary:
Just like Naruto, this anime is not fitting for this position. It is so interesting and battle focused but yeah..lost story line also, too much meaningless battles.

8.  Shingeki no Kyojin

Summary:
 Several hundred years ago, humans were nearly exterminated by titans. Titans are typically several stories tall, seem to have no intelligence, devour human beings and, worst of all, seem to do it for the pleasure rather than as a food source. A small percentage of humanity survived by walling themselves in a city protected by extremely high walls, even taller than the biggest of titan. Flash forward to the present and the city has not seen a giant in over 100 years. Teenage boy Eren and his foster sister Mikasa witness something horrific as the city walls are destroyed by a colossal titan that appears out of thin air. As the smaller titans flood the city, the two kids watch in horror as their mother is eaten alive. Eren vows that he will murder every single titan and take revenge for all of mankind.

7.  Sword Art Online

Summary:
The players of a virtual reality MMORPG, Sword Art Online, are trapped and fighting for their very lives. After it is announced that the only way to leave the game is by beating it, Kirito—a very powerful swordsman—and his friends take on a quest to free all the minds trapped in Aincrad.

6.  Hunter x Hunter
 


5. Fairytail
 
Summary:
Fairy Tail is an anime set in the magical world known as Earthland, where there exists a Mage's Guild known as Fairy Tail. Fairy Tail is the most notorious and famous Mage's guild in the world and is widely considered to be the strongest guild ever created. This ever popular guild is stationed in Magnolia Town within the kingdom of Fiore and is ruled by the Guild Master, Makarov. This story begins with a 17 year old girl named Lucy Heartfilia, who wishes to become a full-fleged Mage and join one of the the world's most prestigious Mage's Guild, Fairy Tail. One day, out of sheer coincidence, Lucy meets a boy named Natsu, who turns her world upside down. What makes Natsu so special....well, he is known as Salamander across the world, and he just happens to be one of Fairy Tail's most infamous Mages.

4. Death Note
 
Summary:
This is just...it's just..

3.FullMetal Alchemist: Brotherhood

Summary:
In this world there exist alchemists, people who study and perform the art of alchemical transmutation - to manipulate objects and transform one object into another. They are bounded by the basic law of alchemy: in order to gain something you have to sacrifice something of the same value.

The main character is the famous alchemist Edward Elric - also known as the Fullmetal Alchemist - who almost lost his little brother, Alphonse, in an alchemical accident. Edward managed to attach his brother's soul to a large suit of armor. While he did manage to save his brother's life, he paid the terrible price of his limbs.

To get back what they've lost, the brothers embark on a journey to find the Philosopher's Stone that is said to amplify the powers of an alchemist enormously.

2. Lelouch of the Rebellion
 
 Summary:
 The Empire of Britannia has invaded Japan using giant robot weapons called Knightmare Frames. Japan is now referred to as Area 11, and its people the 11's. A Britannian who was living in Japan at the time, Lelouch, vowed to his Japanese friend Suzaku that he'd destroy Britannia. Years later, Lelouch is in high school, but regularly skips out of school to go play chess and gamble on himself. One day, he stumbles on terrorists 11's who've stolen a military secret and is caught by a member of the Britannian task force sent after them, who is Suzaku. As the rest of the squad arrives, Suzaku is shot for disobeying orders, while the military secret, a young girl, gives Lelouch the power of Geass, which makes anyone obey any order. While Suzaku is secretly made the pilot of Britannia's brand new prototype Knightmare, Lancelot, Lelouch becomes the masked Zero to lead the rebellion to destroy Britannia once and for all.

1. One Piece
 
Summary:

 This is funny, interesting, suspense filled and battle filled.. it's got it all.

This is it. The ten best out there.

If you think the list is wrong, some were overrated or underrated? comment.
If you know an anime that is surposed to be in this category, comment so I'll check it out.

Thank You

Living Wisely

"If, as a Herod, we fill our lives with things; and, again with things; if we consider ourselves so unimportant that we must fill every moment of our lives with action, when we still have time to make the long journey across the desert, as did the Magi? Or sit and watch the stars, as did the shepherds? Or brood over the coming of the child as did Mary? For each one of us, there's a desert to travel. A star to discover, and a being within ourselves to bring to life."

Relationship: How Not To Fall In Love

Ah, Love: Old Insecurities, Creeping to the Surface.

Tell me if you can relate to this...

You have met a girl that is somehow pulling all the right strings with you (..if not then this post will teach you how to find, meet, get and keep her.) You don't know what it is with her that has got you all fruity and got your mind in a knot just thinking about her (or maybe you do.)

You have hooked up with a girl who is exactly your type... both in terms of looks and personality.

Things couldn't be much better... except, all the confidence you have worked so hard to cultivate over the years are suddenly right out the bus.

Maybe you're even in a place where you know you can go out and pick any girl you want (as a bad guy), so it's not a matter of insecurity or an issue of scarcity (e.g. your girlfriend is hard to replace).

Maybe you have had lots of one-night-stands, friends with benefits, or open relationships before.

And in those situations, you’ve always been cool… cool like..like.. whatever, you get my point.

But around your new girl-friend, you’re suddenly weak at the knees… ESPECIALLY when something happens that gives you room for doubt… doubt whether she’s really as into you as you are into her.

What causes this, and what can you DO about it?

The feeling of being infatuated or even in love with someone is biochemically linked to the feeling of being out of control.

The main reason why people fall in love with each other is that they don’t initially know where they stand with the person they’re with.

Once you show her that she OWNS you… that’s it.

She’ll lose the thrill of the chase, and start to “fall out of love”… And this goes both ways.

I call this "the shadow system". I will explain it in my next post

Maybe you already know about that, and maybe you’re always extra careful not to show her how much you like her… and especially, not to show her your fear that you might like her more than she likes you.

You don’t just need to know how to avoid acting like you’re head-over-heels in love… you need to know how not to fall in love in the first place… at least, not fall in love too much.

But this behavior is just another level of the same problem… it stems from the same basic, underlying insecurity.

Let's begin with the basic thing... CHILL OUT!

You KNOW you’re in trouble if you’re constantly checking your phone to see if she’s messaged you.

You know exactly what I’m talking about if you’ve been there…

And if you have, the simple solution is to CHILL OUT.

Don’t let it get to you if she isn’t texting you all the time… keep in mind, girls play THE GAME too.

They read all about how to manipulate a guy’s feelings in Cosmopolitan and a few dozen other magazines… they learn it from this Korean movies they watch on TV(le min ho shit) and from the romance novels they read while you’re watching porn (you now it's true)…

Chances are she’s checking her phone just as obsessively as you are.

In any case… CHILL!

I can assure you that this problem passes with experience and with the right mindset… years ago I would sometimes check my phone every hour (probably lesser, but let's go with an hour) when I had a crush on a girl.

It’s not something that can’t be overcome… now, if anything, girls ask ME why *I* haven’t texted back.

 Let me show you the light.

How to Not Fall in Love: Abundance Mentality

The thought will probably creep into your head that “you will never find a girl like her again.”

Well G, I have good news and bad news… which do you want first?

Okay…

The bad news is that you’re absolutely right. She really IS a unique little rose, there are NO other girls like her anywhere and you will NEVER find a girl just like her again.

Bam!

Now, for the good news…

Have you ever seen that poster on despair.com that says: “Always remember… you’re special. Just like everybody else.”

That REALLY is the truth.

While there are no other girls out there that are exactly like her, there ARE three billion women out there that are unique in their OWN ways…

Every girl is so intriguing and fascinating in her own way... Never forget that

1. Give Yourself Time

The root cause of neediness is ALWAYS a lack of (perceived) options. And if you want to not fall in love and lose your edge with that amazing new girl, you need to keep those options open.

Don't text her or call her for a long period of time.. "long period" is 1-2months.. stop gasping, you won't die if you don't text or call. If she calls you, tell her you have been busy. If she text you, ignore her.. except on whatsapp (..that "last seen" will be the death of me), tell her you have been busy and still is. Don't try to sound uninterested or else she will go for the next best thing.

Now, when not talking to her during this period, you are definitely still thinking of her ( it is inevitable), so talk to girls where you see them… you don’t need to cheat on your new girlfriend, but you KNOW she’s getting approached by guys, so it’s only fair that you should have a flirt with girls here and there as well.

2. Friends, Don’t Let Friends Text Infatuated

Did you know that being “in love” has been likened to a psychosis by scientists?

Biochemically, it is a very similar process… and in many ways, you are pretty much on drugs when you have a crush on someone. You can't control some things

See the Los Angeles Times’ in-depth piece on "Brains in Love" for a sound tour-de-force of the science behind this.

When you start freaking out for not talking to her for a while, or freaking out about her not replying and you are about to text or call her..wait.. Call your wingman instead (your buddy you go out to meet girls with/ set p with.)

He has a clear head… he can think straight, and view things more objectively and from a distance. Someone like me will slap sanity back into your mushy brain.

3. So Just Push Her Away… Right? No!

One common piece of advice in the world of dating and seduction is to simply push a girl away from you, and she will want you even more for it.

One “guru” even went so far as to saying that other guys are like rubber… if you push your girl onto them, she will bounce right back at you.

And that is true... but only to a point.

I've seen it happen several times that a guy told his girlfriend – “Hey, if you want to leave me for another guy, just go for it.”

He probably thought it made him look really secure in himself and like he didn’t need her… but this is not how not to fall in love. It’s a fool’s gambit played by a man who’s trying to appear in control when he knows he isn’t. In all cases where I’ve seen that happen - where the guy told the girl, “Hey, if you want to leave me for,” the girl took the green light and went ahead and cheated on the guy with somebody else eventually (me).

It is essential to strike a balance... neither too needy, nor too indifferent (some yin yang shiit.)

Or, in the words of David Shade:

“A good man is exciting without being reckless… considerate without being boring… macho without being uninteresting… intelligent without being bland… and dominant without being demanding.”

If that sounds like nothing more than an empty cliché to you, use these words on a woman some time… I once sent this exact line to a female friend of mine over instant messenger, and she was about ready to hop on a plane to come see me afterwards.

Even a year later she still brought it up to me… because, as she said, “your words were strong.”

Never underestimate the power of words… and never underestimate the attractiveness of a man who unites both sides of the yin and yang in his personality!

#The Transition from Dating to Relationship

Being in love with a girl who’s also in love with you?

The greatest rush this side of Eden… while it last. But, you need to set things up right… and you need to strike the right balance.

You need to know how to not fall in love - at least not before she’s in love with you too; you obviously can’t be a weak push-over who calls her five times a day and rolls over when she gives the command. She'll lose all respect for you - and all attraction as well.

On the other hand, however, a lot of the rules you’ve learned about dating go RIGHT out of the window as well… there does come a point when it’s time to drop the “game”, if you ever hope to establish a good, open communication line and trust with your girl.

In dating, a lot of this "tip toe" dance goes on, where one person slips forward a step and then the other person goes forward, and so forth.... It's part of the fun, and you both don't really let on to your attraction until the other person has really won you over.

Once you are in love though, the game changes and you need to start being more authentic… because everything else runs contrary to a great relationship.

Being Authentic

Most people are not 100% open with their hearts… but if you want to be in an exclusive relationship, the right confident kind of vulnerability can actually serve to make you MORE attractive – IF it is done right.

It is also the main thing you need to address in HER, as she will likely be afraid to wear her heart on her sleeve, too.

You see, here’s the thing…

Everything could be really simple, in theory…

Boy likes girl, girl likes boy.

When did it all get so complicated?

Well, the problem is that we’ve all been hurt in the past… and so most people act out of fear. Everybody has baggage from previous relationships, from their childhood or their relationships with their parents, and it overshadows and complicates the intimacy they COULD experience today if they were only able to truly let go of the past.

One girl I used to date put it this way:

“The first time one falls in love is always the best… because there are no scars yet, and no fear… so we allow ourselves to love fully, without reservations and without playing any games.”

The problem, however, is that this baggage lies in the subconscious… and therefore, below the level of our awareness.

But if you can get over your own past, and allow yourself to love fully and yet be completely OUTCOME INDEPENDENT, then you will be able create an intensity in the relationship that makes women just crazy for you. 

So a summary of all this is, give yourself time, meet other people, find your individuality and don't get to needy and too distant.. balance it out.