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Thursday, 17 October 2013

How to have an interesting conversation with a girl and avoid the friendzone.

We all avoid the friendzone one way or the other, but it depends mainly on our conversations. So I'm going to break the girls code and get you into the streaming minds of Girls. Here are 7 steps on how to have an interesting conversation with a girl. 1. BE CHARMING - try being a perfect gentlemen, say the right things when necessary. You could be desperate enough to go back to the fairy tales and learn how to be a prince charming. Ask about her health, her work and her daily activities, chip in few things on how you could help. Don't be too soft anyways, remain the boss or she would start to see you as family. 2. MAKE HER SMILE - every girl likes a funny guy, try to be sarcastic and hilarious. Make jokes in your conversations, but they should be about the topic you're conversing about, make it natural or she would suspect you are forcing it. The jokes should be light and easy, nothing expensive or it would have an opposite effect, a frown. You could make dirty jokes once in a while just so she remembers you're a man. 3. DON'T BORE HER - your conversations should not be too long, you don't have to chat the whole day to make an impression. Put in your best in the few hours you got, when you notice you no longer have anything to chat about, let it go. You could still hit her up the next day. Once you start holding interesting convo's, she would look up to talking to you.  4. DON'T BE CLINGY - girls admire guys that play the "hard to get" . Don't make yourself too available, and be at her every Beck and call. Once she gets very comfortable with you, she starts seeing you as family. Talk to her when it deems necessary, but always check on her. Keep your conversations precise. If you don't give her space, she would start seeing you as a liability. 5. BE FUN - tell her about the fun things you do or did. Make your lifestyle look interesting. Tell her stories of the places you went to, and your activities. She would love to be part of it, if its fun. You could make them up, but back it up well enough.  6. COMPLIMENT HER - once in a while just throw in a few things about her looks, actions she made, little things she did that almost seemed insignificant. Girls enjoy praises. Don't do it too often tho, or it would end up having no effects. Let her know you see her attractive and you want her.  7. DON'T FLAUNT - don't make flimsy statements and expect them to pass by. Don't talk about other girls with her, she would start thinking you don't desire her, or think you're not available. Don't be too personal and talk about yourself a lot or try flaunting the things you have a lot. Doesn't hurt to make an impression that you're rich, but don't make it the bone of contention. It's all about her... Remember that all girls are different and can't be approached the same way, understand them before making a move. If you have personal ideas on how t hold an interesting conversation and avoid the friend zone, feel free to drop them.

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